TRUTH VERSUS LOYALTY

TRUTH VERSUS LOYALTY

INTRODUCTION More often than not, we find ourselves in ethical dilemmas. A good example is truth versus loyalty. The truth is not always sweet, in fact, the truth is known to hurt. Truth does not consider feelings. It is served as hot as it comes. Loyalty on the other hand, is the direct opposite. It is usually the best thing one can do to a person he cares about. So what should one do when faced with a dilemma on whether to tell the truth or be loyal?

EXAMPLES Consider the examples given by Kidder (n.d.). In the case scenario, Carl is torn between being a friend and an ethical superior. If he writes the truth in the writing a letter of reference, it will reduce the chances of his longtime friend getting a job and he might even fall out with Harry. If he decides to be a loyal friend, he will be unethical to his job but will have saved the friendship.

The other case is about Andrew who is torn between being loyal to the president and standing for what he believes is right by telling the truth. If he told the truth, integrity will be reflected in his action but he might lose his job and his respectful friendship he has with the president.

The last case illustrates a loyalty versus truth dilemma that a counselor has to chose from. If she tells the client about her past relationship, she will have acted against professional ethics and the client might think she is still interested in her ex. If she tells the truth she might save the life of her client.

CONCLUSION So what should one do when faced with a loyalty versus truth dilemma? According to Sapp (2004), “If truthfulness is considered a fundamental component of loyalty, then the organization will be built on integrity. If loyalty is considered a fundamental component of truthfulness, then the organization will have true unity.”

Dilemmas are never the best encounters in life. The most amazing fact is that they are inevitable. It is therefore advisable to weigh ones options right before deciding on whether to tell the truth or be loyal. With loyalty, one is guaranteed to have healthy relationships but the truth comes with something different. The good Book states that the truth shall set you free. At the end of the day, the truth will always prevail.

REFERENCES Kidder, R,.M. (n.d.). Truth versus Loyalty: Three Examples. How Good People Make Tough Choices. Pp 120-123 Sapp, R.W. (July 23, 2004). Honoring the Truth-Teller. Retrieved on May 24, 2011 from http:// judgewhite.blogspot.com/2004/07/truth-te lling-v-loyalty-essay.html