Building Positive Relationships at Work Keys to happiness and success

Building Positive Relationships at Work Keys to happiness and success on the job Barbara Huey The Center for Life Enrichment

Relationships in our Lives What relationships do you have in your life? Work Community Mom and Dad Brother Sister Pet Doctor Nurse Police Firefighter Other Boss Co-worker Mentor Customer Neighbor Friend Server Store Clerk Home

Relationships at Work Who is your boss? Who are your coworkers? Who helps you at work? Who else do you have a relationship with at work?

Positive Relationships How do positive relationships make you feel? How do positive relationships make others feel?

Why do you want positive relationships with others at work? Human beings need positive social interactions with others. When you get along with your boss and co-workers, it makes your job more fun. Enjoying your job helps you do the very best job you can and helps to make your boss and co-workers happy. When your boss is happy with you, it helps you to keep your job.

How do you create positive relationships with others at work?

Be respectful How do you show respect to others at work? How do they show respect to you? I treat others as I want them to treat me.

Cooperate with others How does this image show cooperation? Can one person cross the water without help from the others? How do you cooperate with others at work?

Be neat and clean How do you feel when you are working near someone who is not clean and smells badly? How do you keep your body clean for work? How do you keep your clothes clean for work? On a scale of 1 to 10 how do you rate your cleanliness and appearance? If you need to improve your cleanliness and appearance, how will you?

Honor personal space What difference do you see between these two personal interactions? How close is too close for you? And for others? You can get into a lot of trouble if you hug, kiss or touch a co-worker. It’s up to you to understand that a co-worker might get upset with your actions even if you think you are not doing anything wrong. If a co-worker becomes upset with you for trying to hug, kiss, touch or invade his or her personal space, it can be called HARRASSMENT.

Harassment is against the law Harassment is not only about touching or invading someone’s personal space at work. It is also about what is said or other unwelcome actions. Offensive conduct may include, but is not limited to offensive jokes, slurs, epithets or name calling, intimidation, ridicule or mockery, insults or put-downs, offensive objects or pictures, and interference with work performance. What words or actions can you think of that might be harassment? What should you do to make sure you are not harassing a co-worker? What should you do if you feel that someone is harassing you at work?

Doing a good job is always #1 How do you make sure you are doing the very best job you can? How does it make you feel when you are doing your very best?

Quiz 1. Name two reasons you want positive relationships at work. 2. Name two ways to build positive relationships at work. 3. Is it ok to hug, kiss or touch a co-worker if that makes a co-worker feel uncomfortable? 4. What is it called when you make a co-worker uncomfortable by invading his or her personal space or saying something that upsets him or her? 5. How do you prevent harassment? 6. What do you do if someone is harassing you? 7. Name two things you do on your job to make sure that you are doing the very best job you can.